Saturday, December 27, 2008

Quotations

We do not return from the journey into pain and illness to the same house that we left. We have become more and the house we will live in will be more as well, for however long we may inhabit it. -- Rachel Naomi Remen

When all else is lost, the future remains.-- Sandy Blythe

Life is living through the problems, and dealing with them, but not paying so much attention to them that everything else is drowned out.-- Trish Lynch

You are a person with a condition, not a condition in a person's skin. While it's hard to remember that sometimes because of what we go through - personally, as well as with those who don’t understand - the only way to beat pain emotionally (even if you cant physically) is to accept that it's not YOU, it's just there. It’s a part of your life, not your being.

Be not afraid of going slowly. Be afraid of standing still.-- Japanese Proverb

Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be. Don't think that you've lost time. There is no short-cutting to life. It took each and every situation you have encountered to bring you to the now. And now is right on time. -- Asha Tyson
“Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.”

Our health always seems much more valuable after we lose it.

Time and health are two precious assets that we don't recognize and appreciate until they have been depleted. --waitley

“after a while you learn to build all your dreams on today because tomorrows ground is too uncertain for dreams and futures have a way of falling down”

'We have no right to ask when sorrow comes, "Why did this happen to me?" unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way.' ~Author Unknown

Adversity is like a strong wind. It tears away from us all but the things that cannot be torn, so that we see ourselves as we really are. ~Arthur Golden

Diseases can be our spiritual flat tires - disruptions in our lives that seem to be disasters at the time but end by redirecting our lives in a meaningful way. ~Bernie S. Siegel

There is no ghost so difficult to lay as the ghost of an injury. ~Alexander Smith

Nothing prevents happiness like the memory of happiness. ~André Gide, L'immoraliste

It is in moments of illness that we are compelled to recognize that we live not alone but chained to a creature of a different kingdom, whole worlds apart, who has no knowledge of us and by whom it is impossible to make ourselves understood: our body. ~Marcel Proust

Without adversity we cannot grow and appreciate life, for it is the tough times that molds and creates a person. How can one see past the superficial to what is truly important, how does one grow? There is no constant in this world, only change. We develop through change. We learn through change. Do not fear adversity, embrace it Life is unpredictable. Tomorrow is unknown. What changes await us? Embrace change and learn to be a better person for it. Embrace change in order to teach others who are going through rough times. Embrace change as growth. Adversity is change. Life doesn't have to end because of adversity.

That some good can be derived from every event is a better proposition than that everything happens for the best, which it assuredly does not. ~James K

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

We are all mortal.

We are all dying. It’s the only thing we know with all certainty in life. Of late, there are times I lie awake at night simply trying to comprehend my own nonexistence. One day we will die, and life will go on without us seemingly unaware that we’re no longer there. The world keeps turning, night becomes day and day becomes night, life on Earth continues but none of it will exist for us. We won’t be there to see what tomorrow brings. Yet, nothing really changes once we’re gone. Those who knew us will grieve and let go, and we’ll exist as nothing more than a memory that lasts their lifetime. With each generation, the memory of us fades. Eventually, our memory will not even hold its mark in this world. One day, it will be like we were never here in the first place.

So I lie there, and close my eyes, and try to comprehend my own nonexistence.

It’s impossible...
and something else I won’t exist to see, in the end.


(I think too much.)

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I can't believe its December. This year has been nothing but a blur. I actually can't wait to wave goodbye to 2008, which is unusual for me since I usually dislike it when each year comes to a close. I'm a bit sentimental in that it makes me sad that it will never ever be that year again, but this year all I am is glad.

I have one exam to go and an essay to do, then that's it. I never have a clue what to do with myself during the holidays! I honestly enjoy classes more than holiday time, that's probably a reflection of how much I love and enjoy psychology.

Everything has changed this year.